Archive for April, 2010

Men Should Be Castrated

I just read this….
KUALA LUMPUR: A male senator has called for men responsible for causing babies to be abandoned to be castrated. Senator Ahmad Husin said there were many irresponsible men involved in negative habits, such as drug-addiction, drinking and raping innocent women.

“Many of these men who also contribute to the rising number of abandoned babies have escaped or went missing without trace. The ministry should consider the idea of castrating these men caught for causing the rise in the number in cases of abandoned babies in the country,” he said during question and answer session in Dewan Negara on Thursday.

Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Seri Shahrizat Abdul Jalil said the method of castration would be too radical and extreme to implement. “We must curb the reasons why cases of abandoned babies continue to happen. We need to improve the quality of the family institution. Many people seem to leave their responsibilities to their children outside the home, and parents don’t provide quality time to educate and provide love to them”.theStar (for more read here)

Mister Senator, humans are not animals where births can be controls by castrating them. Don’t you think that  because of we, human are too selfish only resulting castrations need to be done on those poor animals to controls their populations. To attempt to equate the same methods of one with the method of another especially on human is a non-solution.

But I do agree on you to the extend that this really serves to those drug addicts, rapists and dick-itchy men. Even though castration sound very extreme but if this really can curb these ill-minded people, so I don’t see it as a no. You see, if we really have this stated or implemented in our law AND every man do obey the law, so I don’t see any men will get their dick being need to chop off. It’s like killing someone then you need to sentence to death. Moreover nowadays, people getting more and more sick. Even a small kids as young as 3 years old also they go molest, rape and abuse. So why spare them their dick right? Potong sajalah….

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Zip Opened

There was a time when I went to a bookstore in Ikano looking for a book which is located under Classic section. As usual, the Asian Literature (just opposite the Classic’s) section always have a few aunties standing there browsing some books. So after scanning the top most and the middle row at the shelves, I didn’t see the title I want and I squad down to search at the lower compartment. To my surprise, the down part of the shelve have many titles I wanted to get. So I was squatting there happily browsing those books.  Then this lady also squad down, smile at me and she was squatting there reading a book . So I smiled back and din bother her anymore while I was busy browsing which books to get.

After a few minutes, I heard some tearing sound. Something like cloth being tear open. I was holding a book, in squatting position and some of the books are placed on my lap. This lady next to me turn her head and look at me.  The sound is getting more obvious. I was thinking, shit lor, my pants is tearing (definitely is the ass part, squatting mah). So I thought the sound came from me. My mind was turning fast, whispering shit shit shit…..die die die, so embarrassing….and went……teariiiiiing………oooopen…….hold on…..OPEN? ………yeah sound of zip open sound.

And then, I heard a long zip open sound and it was like half minute time. Ziiiiiiiippppppppppp………..

Now I am sure the sound was not made by me because how on earth while I was on this position my zip can open leh. Impossible mah. So I turned my head a look back at the lady next to me. She was too looking at me with a sympathy look and she still thinking the sound came fro me plus she was looking at my ass.

I stand up slowly to make sure and check. Partly covering my front part with the book I am holding and to my relief nothing happen on my zip. I slowly touch my ass to check got any cracking part or not. (hey, where got time to care what a lady would think of you while you adjusting, touching and checking your pant and zip in front of her?) So I slowly move away the book that covering my front part (to show her my zip is not open). And then she looked away as she knew the sound was not from me.
Since I am standing, I still look around to see where the sound come from. There was only a few people  standing at the far end corner and for sure the sound was not from them. Impossible. Then I look back down to the lady who still squatting there, reading the book she’s holding. Then I saw something and the previous tearing and open sound was now for sure are from her. Oh yeah…did I mention the lady is a bit plumy? Yeah she was a bit. The lower back part of her skirt has teared resulting the zip being opened. (many office’s ladies like to wear this type of body-fit black skirt which have the zip on the back part). I really dunno how to explained the thing but I know the tearing is resulted by her tight and tension around her waist while she squat down.
Oh god, how was I going to let her know. While I was figuring how was I going to tell her, she turns her head toward me and unconsciously my finger already pointing to her back. 
Lady: Sorry?
Me: Miss, your…..
Lady: Yes…..
Me: Your zip……
Lady: Very calmly saying…..OH……argh…….again………hmmmmm………thanks ya……..
Me: Quiet for a few seconds, wondering what she mean “again”……Ok…’re welcome……and I cabut…..
Followed by that incident, I dunno why my confidence already broke and constantly I will check my zip and my pants whenever I squat down, standing up and after went to toilet, just to make sure. So one of my friend noticed that and he always tease me…”Niamah…..why you always touch your zip? You scare your “lan” (harsh word in Cantonese meaning dick) fly away meh….”
Then I replied, “Scared lor, not like you this pervert and coward shit, always unzip and now ur balls gone missing”.

Now, I think I better start be a bit more confident. It really look indecent to keep touching my down part. Not that I am pervert or rude, but to make sure mah…. somemore the urge to touch and check my zip is just too strong.

My advise to you’ll is you too better check your zip regularly regardless you are male or female. In case  if yours is open, elephant trunk or bunga kekwa (chrysanthemum) may waving and saying, Hello World…..muahhahahaha

Buddha On Stubborn Person

What would the Buddha do about close minded people?

Where does tolerance begin? It starts with the pettiness that forces people to believe others are just as petty. Small-minded and stubborn people feel they need strict laws to keep the peace and detailed codes of conduct becayse they can’t be trusted to be good. They demean themselves and demean others.


Good news everyone, Malaysian Maverick: Mahathir Mohamad in Turbulent Times by Barry Wain has been approved for sale after the super long 4 months for the ministry to review the book and should hit the bookshops by next week. I’m so gonna get myself a copy.


The controversial political biography of former Prime Minister Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad, titled Malaysian Maverick: Mahathir Mohamad in Turbulent Times, by British author Barry Wain, has been approved for sale in Malaysia. The book is expected to hit the shelves of local bookstores early next week.
A shipment of the book has been held in Port Klang since November while its content was being examined by the Home Ministry. The book, written by the former Asian Wall Street Journal editor, was published in the United Kingdom in May. 

In a letter to the book’s distributor in Malaysia, the ministry said Malaysian Maverick had been given “clean approval”. 

In a statement issued Thursday, the book’s publisher Palgrave Macmillan and its author welcomed Malaysia’s decision.
Wain, currently resident writer at the Institute of Southeast Asian Studies in Singapore, expressed his delight when contacted Thursday. “We’ve been waiting for more than four months for a decision, and are extremely pleased,” he said. – theStar
 If not mistaken, the book cost RM99.80

Title: Why Men Want Sex & Women Need Love
Author: Allan & Barbara Pease
Publisher: Pease International
ISBN: 9781920816308

Back Cover text
Allan and Barbara Pease, the international bestselling authors of Why Men Don’t Listen & Women Can’t Read Maps, deliver their most important book yet.

In this practical, humorous and easy-to-read guide, Allan and Barbara Pease reveal the truth about men and women. They translate science and cutting edge research into a powerful yet highly entertaining read, then teach you what you can do about it.

This book can help singles looking for love, those in relationships that need some real help of theose who want to keep their partner happy and reap the extraordinary benefits that follow.


What men and women really want from love and sex
How to find a great partner and have a happy future
What to do when the chemistry is wrong
What turns men and women on and off
How to handle a cheater
How to change your love-life forever
How to make women want sex more
How to regain your mojo

This is a must-have book for anyone who wants to get the most from their relationship. It provides the answers both men and women are desperate to learn.

 Allan & Barbara Pease

The authors official website Pease International

World Book Day 2010

In conjunction with World Book Day 2010, which falls on this Friday, all of the major bookstores such as Kinokuniya, Borders, Popular, MPH and BookXcess are having promotions, discounts and yes, discount up to 25%.

 Kinokuniya is having their 9 years anniversary Boundless Between Covers promotions. The promotions starts in April. They’re giving 25% discount (only with sticker and when you purchase of another item). To celebrate their 9th Anniversary, with every purchase of RM30, customers can collect one stamp, with fully 9 stamps, on the next purchase on books, RM30 rebate is given. The promotion is valid from 1st April till 30th June 2010. (But the stamp will only given from 1st April till 2nd May 2010).


From 16th April till 16th May 2010, Popular bookstore is having this 2nd book@50% off on selected books.  Check the book list here.With every purchase of RM50 and above (for member, while nonmember on RM80), you will entitle to get this bookmarks shown below. Is a set of four.


While at MPH bookstores, they are having 25% off for selected Asian female authors books. And if you purchase these books online, you’ll have 20% discount. An exclusive bookmark is free with purchase of any book in the store.


At Borders, they turns five this year. Meaning the bookstore is offering discounts as well as promotions until 2nd May 2010.

  •  If you spent RM55 and above in a single receipt, you’ll receive RM5 voucher on next purchase and eligible for their Anniversary Contest
  • There are many books set offered in bargain price and bundle pack titles at only RM55
  • Get a free shopping bag when you spend RM250 and above on a single receipt (or purchase atRM9.90 during this promotion)


    And lastly at BookXcess, on 21 to 25 April 2010, they are giving 20% discount for 100 selected titles. Check out the title here.

    • Purchase of RM50 in a single receipt, you’re entitle to be their member instead of RM100
    • Free handmade book thong when you purchase of RM100 and above in a single receipt (limited one per receipt). 
    • For RM200 and above in a single receipt, you will get a RM20 book voucher (valid till 31 May 2010). 
    • Having sales as books are as low as RM1, RM2 and RM3.

    Many people out there still can’t afford to even a book. Yet many of us has a stray book or two that may not read again. In order to keep up the good spirit of sharing is caring, why not take some time, browse through your bookshelves to see any books that you can donate out rather than to recycle those books into wastepaper. Keep the joy of reading not only to not our self but to everyone. Happy 2010 World Book day.

    Title: 101 Most Influential People Who Never Lived: How Characters of Fiction, Myth, Legends, Television, and Movies Have Shaped Our Society, Changed Our Behavior, and Set the Course of History
    Author: Allan Lazar, Dan Karlan & Jeremy Salter 
    Publisher: HarperCollins
    ISBN: 9780061132216

    Back Cover text
    “They influenced lives, set societal standards fomented revolutions, and changed the world and they never really existed!” (Betty Boop, Hercules, King Kong, Ebenezer Scrooge etc…..)

    From Santa Claus to Buffy the Vampire Slayer, from Uncle Sam to Uncle Tom, here is a compelling, eye-opening, and endlessly entertaining compendium of fictional trendsetters and world-shakers who have helped shape our culture and our lives. The 101 Most Influential People Who Never Lived offers fascinating histories of our most beloved, hated, feared, and revered invented icons and the indelible marks they made on civilization, including:

    # 28: Rosie the Riveter, the buff, blue-collar factory worker who helped jump-start the Women’s Liberation movement  

    # 7: Siegfried, the legendary warrior-hero of Teutonic nationalism responsible for propelling Germany into two world wars

    # 80: Icarus, the headstrong high-flyer who inspired the Wright brothers and humankind’s dreams of defying gravity . . . while demonstrating the pressing need for flight insurance

    # 58: Saint Valentine, the hapless, de-canonized loser who lost his heart and head at about the same time

    # 43: Barbie, the bodacious plastic babe who became a role model for millions of little girls, setting an impossible standard for beauty and style 

    Title: Oneness With All Life – Inspirational Selection from A New Earth
    Author: Eckhart Tolle
    Publisher: Penguin Book
    ISBN: 9780452296084

    Back Cover text
    Your inner purpose is to awaken. It is as simple as that. You share that purpose with every other person on the planet because it is the purpose of humanity. Your inner purpose is an essential part of the purpose of the whole, the universe and its emerging intelligence. Your outer purpose can change over time. It varies greatly from person to person. Finding and living in alignment with the inner purpose is the foundation for fulfilling your outer purpose. It is the basis for true success.

    This book is the perfect gift for a friend or those who might feel bored, meaningless, unhappy, feel lost, and depress in their current life now. The book is actually compose from selected essential phrases and paragraphs picked by Eakhart Tolle that he feels are most important and reorganized from the book A New Earth. As this book might be or might be not suitable as a introductionary  for a reader new to Tolle’s writings, therefore you can get a copy of A New Earth, which is also Oprah’s 61st book club selection, to those who wants to gets deeper insight into his prominent work such as The Power of Now, Stillness Speaks and Guardian of Being.

    Here is a part that I love the most in the book (I worry that I may get into copyright violation, so I simplified it)

    ”  Choose any object either a pen, a chair, or a plant and explore it visually. Look at it with great interest and almost curiosity. Avoid any strong personal association with that object or with any writing on it. Relaxed and give complete attention to the object. 

       If any thought arise, don’t get involved in them. It is not the thoughts you’re interested in but the perception itself. For example, Look without the little voice in your head commenting, drawing conclusion, comparing or relating to the past. 

      After a couple of minutes, let your gaze wander around the room. Same thing to the sound that present in around you. Some may be pleasant and some may be bad. Don’t differentiate between good and bad. Allow as it be. Remember don’t interpret it.Oneness With All Life, pg 11.

    In this, I learned that, when we perceives something without interpreting or labeling the object either it’s a thing, sound, human or an animal, with our first sight at these objects, for sure our little mind inside our head start labeling, giving names and judging it. By using the method above, we can really start seeing things in difference perspectives. In this way, not only we can practicing on free from observance where our ego, being bias and “not judge the book by its cover” symptoms are not the being the main thought of giving someone or something some mental labeling without getting to know them, learned them in the first hand. By this, you will really can become a happier and pleasant person.

    1. The Boy Who Harnessed The WindWilliam Kamkwamba & Bryan Mealer
    2. To Kill A MockingbirdHarper Lee
    3. 445 Days Under The ISA, Operation Lalang 1987-89Kua Kia Soong